Be What You Want to See

"Start putting into the world what you would like to get out of the world."

-- A.C. Ping

Are you searching for the perfect lover, perfect job, perfect client or perfect partner? Then start being the perfect lover, perfect employee, perfect business owner, or perfect partner. The formula is simple -- be what you want to see!

But what if you're searching for the perfect computer or perfect house? You can't just be a perfect computer or a perfect house. Whenever you find yourself wanting material objects, just remember that what you really want is not the object itself, but the value or experience that the object represents for you.

Let's say that your ideal computer is fast, flexible, easy to use, and powerful. (Obviously you want a MAC and not a PC!) If those are the qualities you want to experience, then those are the qualities you need to manifest, i.e., start being fast, flexible, "user friendly," and powerful in all your dealings with the world. Put out what you want to receive, regardless of the form in which you want to receive it.

For you owning a home may represent security, financial maturity, and achievement. Fine. Start by helping others feel more secure, by making financially mature decisions, and by achieving up to your potential, and you will begin to have the very experiences the home represents. Will you get the perfect home exactly as you envision it? Possibly. But it's also possible that you'll get a much better home, or even something very different, but more aligned with your own core values.

Here's a foolproof way to decide what you need to put into the world -- listen to what you bitch about! Whatever you find lacking is what you need to give. Whatever you don't see is what you need to be!

Forty years ago Dionne Warwick sang, "What the world needs now is love, sweet love. That's the only thing that there's just too little of." I've yet to meet anyone who feels that the world just loves them too damn much. So, putting a little more love into the world is a really fine place to start.